In the last blog I talked about self-esteem issues that most children have but are prominent among adopted children. These issues range from an inaccurate view of themselves, other people’s comments and the lack of stability and maturity that often comes with their situations. This is a major issues in the lives of adopted kids. They have to deal with the loss that they have faced, other people’s opinions and feelings of abandonment. Amidst all of this, they need to develop a self-worth and understanding that will carry them through their lives. Many of these kids fail in that regard. The obstacles are too large, their support system doesn’t understand and they lose hope.
The Joint Council is looking to help you [the adoptive parent] combat this in the lives of your children. They are offering “…a panel of adult adopted people…[who will] reflect back on how being adopted shaped their identity. The panel will answer questions and give adopted parents practical insight into how they can best support their children to form a healthy sense of self.
This discussion panel will occur on Tuesday, May 22 @ 7 pm Central time. The question and answer period will immediately follow from 8-8:30.
This is an amazing opportunity to delve into the minds of previously adopted children who are now adults and can deal with the issues with the maturity that adulthood brings. I am looking forward to this time to focus on the heart of adoption- helping the children find themselves in the midst of a world that is often hard and challenging.
If you are interested in being part of or listening into this panel check out the Joint Council website. There are links available there to join.
Self-esteem issues are so prevalant among children and teens. This is magnified in the lives of the adopted children that we love. Anything that we, as parents, can do to understand and make the transitions that our children face is worth every bit of time, effort and expense. I will let you know how this went if you can’t tune in. I am intending on being involved and learning through the loves of those who have walked the path before me. Hope you can make it.
~Angie
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